Monthly Archives: November 2006

Who’s to Blame?

finger_pointThere has been yet another stink raised over information being distributed that could potentially be used for malicious purposes. In this case it’s over YouTube videos demonstrating how to pick a lock. Some people don’t like the idea that information like this is made so publicly available, arguing that this could lead more people to illegally break into people’s homes. Others point out that the information isn’t to blame, it’s the people who put the information to bad use that are to blame.

A couple observations on my part:

1. In my experience, people who argue for the freedom of information on the Net are usually the same people who will turn around and argue for strict gun control. I say, you’ve got to be consistent across the board. Don’t blame gun companies for gun-related deaths, blame the people who put the guns to bad use. Just like information, guns are not inherently good or bad, they just “are.” Or, to quote one of my favorite shirts, “Guns don’t kill people, I kill people.”

2. Would it be different if a person were to give an online demonstration (all fictional, of course, but more like a “reenactment”) of how to stalk a woman with intent to rape her? Or what if a person did an online video of how to break into YOUR house specifically? How does one draw the line on what information should be freely available and what information should be silenced? I cringe at the thought of a person making an online tutorial revealing how to molest kids without getting caught.

My reason for asking these questions is, at what point does publicly releasing information become a bad thing? Does it EVER become a bad thing or does ALL information deserve to be as publicly available as possible? I think that some information should be publicly available but I think it’s foolish to be completely indiscriminate about what information one allows to be viewable. Some sort of a line has to be drawn. I’m not sure what I think about this topic. Let’s discuss … what do you think?

Issues in Youth Ministry: Ben Gray

Tim has written a post featuring some answers I gave him regarding my thoughts on a couple issues in youth ministry. Thanks for giving me the chance to participate, Tim!

Customer Confidential

Customer Confidential. Excellent, excellent article. With the shopping season upon us this is a fantastic work that you absolutely must read in its entirety.

How to Build a Profitable Home on the Web

How to Build a Profitable Home on the Web via Tubetorial. Simple, short and very well done tutorial on several important issues. Also, check out the list of best WordPress themes on the Net.

Gossip, Propriety & Ministry

gossipMinistry is like Politics in that everyone, especially those not involved in the process, has an opinion. I hear a lot of people saying really good stuff along the lines of “We need to get back to the New Testament Church Model.” I agree in principle. The principles that surrounded how the early church “did” ministry are extremely important in this day and age. However, ministers today face far different challenges than those in the early church did. Yes, I know that there’s nothing new under the sun, but the manner in which it is done has changed, if that makes any sense.

The things which ministers and church goers struggle with today are in essence the same things they struggled with 2,000 years ago. However, the circumstances within which they struggle are significantly different. It irks me to no end when I hear someone say, “We need to literally do ministry the way Paul did ministry.” Oh really? That’s a great goal, but if you’re going to make a statement like that you need to be ready and willing to apply all of Paul’s ministry practices, not just pick and choose the one’s you like. It would be a much more wise statement to say, “We need to apply Paul’s ministry principles in today’s society.” Stating the former has far-reaching consequences that don’t always line up with wisdom. Let me explain.

Gossip is a fact of any public-facing office

I recently told a person that I won’t counsel a teenage girl alone in my office with the door shut. They disagreed and asked me “Would Jesus counsel a teenage girl with the door shut?” They assumed He would. Great question. Would He? Probably not. Not in private at least, especially in that culture. I explained that I’m careful what I do in ministry because of how it could be perceived (albeit incorrectly) by church members. The fellow responded that “We shouldn’t let gossips run our ministries.” I agree, but at the same time we as ministers must be above reproach. We are indeed called to a higher standard and must take practical steps to live up to our high calling. Gossip is a fact of any public-facing office. It’s something you have to deal with pro actively, not reactively and it’s something you absolutely cannot ignore.

At any rate, this has been more of a rant than anything. But I’d also like to hear your opinions. How can a minister today take New Testament Church principles and apply them to 21st century culture? Also, how do you feel a male minister is supposed to handle private counseling with women or girls?

molly.com ? Memorable Air Lines

Molly’s post: Memorable Air Lines reminds me of the joys of flying. I know I’ve been on flights were similar things were announced by the pilot or flight attendants but I can’t remember any of them specifically.

‘Tis the Season

I love Christmas! It’s by far and away my favorite holiday and now that Thanksgiving is over I have officially begun Christmas season :D. Christmas music in my car 24/7, Christmas lights on the house (coming soon), and all that other jazz that goes along with the fat man — and Santa too. Merry Christmas!

Buy Nothing Day

I wish I had known about this earlier. Very cool idea. I’m lovin’ it.

Humans Are Very Different

Humans are more different from one-another than we have previously believed. The plot thickens…

Top Ten Geek Girls

I agree with everyone on this list except for Paris Hilton. I’m not sure she’s the most famous girl gamer. Personally, I think Kristin Pishdadi is.

How to Delete Your MySpace Account

For the past three or four months I’ve been getting a TON of hits on my blog from folks searching for a tutorial on how to delete their MySpace account. Since I haven’t seen many good tutorials out there on how to accomplish this seemingly impossible task I figured I’d take a minute to provide a good write-up — complete with pictures — on how to delete a MySpace account.

Step #1: Log in to your MySpace Account

Yes, I’m stating the obvious here but I don’t want to leave any stone unturned ;) . Note the provocatively dressed girl. This is but one reason I wanted to delete my MySpace account in the first place.

Step #2: Click on “Account Settings”

(view screenshot) You’re going to want to change the settings to your account. Namely, that you want your account to cease to exist.

Step #3: Click on “Cancel Account”

(view screenshot) Now we’re getting down to it! Finally! Your days of MySpace Hell are almost at an end! Click that beautiful “cancel account” link! This is but the first hurdle though, be prepared to tell MySpace over and over again that you REALLY DO want to delete your account.

Step #4: Confirm that you want to delete your account

(view screenshot) I’m sure MySpace is just being kind here. I mean, I suppose there’s a chance that someone could have gotten this far BY ACCIDENT.

Step #5: Confirm AGAIN that you want to delete your account

(view screenshot) Tenacious, aren’t they? Well, at least they recognize that MySpace sends out TONS of crappy email notifications and they give us a chance to stop those notifications from being sent. But that’s not why we’re deleting our account, we’re deleting our MySpace account because we can only take Emo Kids for so long before our brains begin to sizzle like eggs on a hot skillet. Click — again — “cancel my account.”

Step #6: Wait for the email

(view screenshot) What!? we’ve told them twice that we want to delete our MySpace account. We’re pretty sure we really do want this. Still, in the mind of MySpace this is but a “request” on our part. We’re not requesting here you dummies, we’re freakin’ DEMANDING! Nevertheless, we must wait for a confirmation email.

Step #7: This is the REAL confirmation

What a crock! You mean to tell me that all that previous confirmation stuff was for naught!? Even though we’ve told you at least 3 million times that we really do want to delete our account you are going to ignore those if we don’t tell you yet AGAIN? OK, whatever, click on the link to confirm my cancellation “request.” This should be the last time we have to tell you that we want to delete my account.

Step #8: Confirm — AGAIN — that you want to delete your account

This is getting ridiculous. Yes, for the last time, we REALLY DO want to delete our account. Sheesh! On a side note, if you’ve ever had a credit card and tried to cancel it the experience is very similar. They run you through hoops hoping you’ll just get tired of the rigmarole and decide to keep your blasted credit card because it’s easier than canceling. But we’re more persevering than that! MySpace will not succeed in keeping us!

Step #9: Wait up to 48 hours

Evidently MySpace servers have a lot of requests to delete accounts because there’s a backlog that can be as long as two days worth of requests. Oh well, this is the last screen on MySpace you will ever need to see again. The process was so simple, yet so complicated at the same time, wasn’t it?

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